How to maintain a professional yet intimate relationship with your Erotic Provider
The world of paid intimacy is a tough one to navigate. This is a slippery slope that can send anyone spiraling into a danger zone. There are many questions one might wonder… How close is too close? What did it mean when she did that? What happens when I feel something outside of a session? What is real and what is not?
It is difficult because in this world we are mixing a powerful concoction of chemicals, hormones, excitement, taboos, exposure, depth, and a whole host of feelings and experiences that do not otherwise exist in “the real world.” Through these experiences, it is easy to get swept away. It is easy to cross a line. It is easy to mistake love for lust. It is easy to mistake fantasy for reality.
But I have found that there is one thing that prevents all possible mishaps, hurt, and confusion from arising… BOUNDARIES. In this industry boundaries are the most important thing that any provider can have. Many years in this industry, it is the women who have had loose boundaries or weren’t capable of upholding their boundaries, that would get into trouble.
However, it is not just important for providers to have boundaries, it is always important for YOU as a client to have boundaries as well. Think about these boundaries before getting your toes wet. What is a comfortable place for you to feel safe? Maybe you want to make no connection at all, just a swift in and out. Maybe you feel comfortable talking and opening up a bit. Maybe you are looking for a more intimate connection and decide you want to find someone that offers more of a GF experience. Whatever you decide you want to experience, make sure you have set up realistic boundaries to keep you safe within this parameter.
Bottom line, remember that this is my profession. For my work, I dazzle and shine as brightly as I can for you. But at the end of the day, I go home and live my life with a desire for privacy and respect. So as a rule of thumb, for those that wish to maintain a steady and professional relationship with their provider, the boundaries tend to be:
When you enter my space, we can play in this fun world of intimacy and sensuality and when you leave my space the container closes.
When you email me or my assistant the requests should be professional and gentlemanly.
I love getting gifts and they are a great token of gratitude but please don’t give gifts with the intention of getting me to cross a boundary.
I am clear about what I will and will not do. Please do not ask me to break these boundaries.
I have stretched, pulled, and molded boundaries in a multitude of different ways throughout the years and it has taken all of that time to solidify the boundaries that keep me rocking in this work. It is because of these boundaries that I can show up for you month after month, year after year. And as you know, I truly love what I do. So thank you for your kindness, understanding, and professionalism and for keeping my business thriving year after year! As much as I try to shine for you, it is YOU that brightens my day!
