Curious about BDSM…but don’t know where to start?

Curious about BDSM…but don’t know where to start?

A great place to start for anyone curious about BDSM is Bondassage®! 

What is BDSM and a brief History 

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. It is fetish-based sexual play that can incorporate anything from wild positions, whips and chains, ropes and bondage, kinky fetishes, costumes and roleplay, to corporal dominance, slaves and complicated power plays. 

While the emergence of the BDSM culture seems relatively new, being spotlighted and amplified in our 21st century by books like 50 Shades of Gray and other popular movies, BDSM has been around since the beginning of recorded civilization. 

Depictions of BDSM have been recorded all over the world, throughout all eras, the first having been in Mesopotamia where the fertility god Inanna was known to whip her slaves into submission and to arouse sexual excitement for her pleasure. The Kamasutra teaches how to slap and bite. The Romans coined the term flagellation which was used sexually and religiously to inflict torturous pleasure. And Japan created Hojojitsu, the ancient art of rope restraint, later becoming an erotic art and now practiced as shibari. 

With its rich history and a culture that will always have these longing desires for the naugtier side of sexuality, it is no wonder that popularity for these types of experiences are growing. But where does one begin? If you have never even dipped a toe into this world it might feel very intimidating to go to events, connect with social media groups, or see a dominatrix. 

I have found that the best place to start is with Bondassage®. 

What is Bondassage®? 

“ Bondassage® is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your sensual repertoire. 

It begins with you naked and kneeling … a leather collar around your neck, and padded cuffs softly binding your wrists and ankles.

Your eyes are covered with a soft blindfold.

Lightly secured to a comfortably padded massage table, you sink deeply into your body as a selection of specially selected sounds play through your headphones.

As you surrender to the sensations and forget the outside world, you journey to a place of exquisite enjoyment, a place where you can indulge your senses and embrace the pleasure.” ~Bondassage® website

Why Choose Bondassage®

Rather than diving deep into the world of fetishes, corporal punishment and power plays, let me take you on a journey that is both exciting and pleasurable. While this journey is sure to elicit a build-up of emotions, you should have no fear. In this journey, we will play with the lines between pain and pleasure but you will never experience suffering or be left in pain or with marks. Rather you will experience a multitude of different toys for sensation play and will only be lightly bonded to allow for complete surrender. In my care, you will feel safe and comfortable giving me your full submission, you will get a taste of the world of kink and you will have taken an amazing, brave step into the world of BDSM. 

Whether you are a novice or expert in the BDSM world, Bondassage® will give you an experience unlike anything you’ve ever known and will be something not soon forgotten. Book your session today!

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